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Becoming Yourself: the four-month coaching program of Thoughts in Action

Becoming Yourself is the four-month, one-to-one personal growth program of Thoughts in Action, led by founder Alex Poolman. It is built on one idea: your life is your invention. A thought becomes a belief, a belief becomes what you experience, and you are in charge of what you choose to think.

What Becoming Yourself is built around

Three movements, and one program built around them:

How the four months run

The full month-by-month description is on what is actually inside the four-month program.

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Sessions, format and contact in between

Sessions are roughly an hour, with agreed contact in between. The between-contact is the part that makes the difference. Online and in person both work: online is more consistent for most people because it survives a busy week; in person is stronger at the start and at the end. See online or in-person coaching.

What it costs

The program is quoted per person, because the amount of contact differs. You get the number in the free call, before anything else is discussed. A payment plan is possible; ask in the call. There is no rolling subscription and nothing renews unless you ask for it. More on what personal growth coaching costs.

Who it is not for

Anyone in acute distress, anyone looking for a guaranteed financial outcome, and anyone who wants this done to them rather than with them. We are coaches, not therapists and not doctors. We will say so in the free call rather than after you have paid.

How to start

With a free fifteen-minute discovery call on Zoom with Alex Poolman: no payment and no commitment. What happens in that call.

Questions Thoughts in Action gets asked about this

How long is the Becoming Yourself program?

Four months, one to one, with sessions of roughly an hour and agreed contact in between.

What does Becoming Yourself cost?

The program is quoted per person, because the amount of contact differs. You get the number in the free call, before anything else is discussed. A payment plan is possible.

Is it online or in person?

Both work. Online is more consistent for most people because it survives a busy week; in person is stronger at the start and at the end.

How do I start?

Book the free fifteen-minute discovery call on Zoom with Alex Poolman. No payment and no commitment.

Still not sure? The fifteen-minute discovery call is free, and it is a real conversation rather than a sales call. You will get a straight answer about whether this is for you — including when it is not.

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